Resisting Change Is Futile

Even if you resist taking action to change your life, your life will still change. You may hold on to what you have, your problems, unwanted behaviors, false beliefs, fears, bad habits, etc. because they make you feel safe. They feel comfortable because they are familiar, a known factor. If you practice acceptance saying, “That’s just the way I am, there’s nothing I can do about it,” you will still change. If you fear going inside to address and release the past references that have created your problems, because you are afraid of “who will I be without this?” it won’t prevent you from changing.

You will continue to practice your beliefs, behaviors, problems, or whatever you currently produce, and as you do you will get better and better at having them. Whatever you focus on and practice daily will increase. You are perfecting whatever you currently produce. If there is something you don’t want in your life that you are afraid to go to the cause to release because you fear the change it will bring, you have still made a choice to change by continuing to focus on, perpetuate and practice what you don’t want, it will change as you get better at having that problem.

The choice is yours. Either way you will not stay the same, you will change. Do you want to change for the worse, thinking you are just accepting your problem? Or do you want to change for the better, by going inside and addressing the cause of your symptoms? Releasing the negative emotional charge to it, and change how you represent it in your mind. Make it a positive and then continue to practice that instead of the negative. Either way, you will change, and it’s your choice whether you want it to be a negative or positive one. Doing nothing is still a choice. Choose your changes wisely. Unless you choose the changes you want, change will make the choices for you.

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